Some of God’s deepest work happens when there is finally enough stillness to hear him clearly.

You asked God why this season feels so lonely —

“Because I’m asking you to know me without the noise.

You’ve been so used to filling the quiet with people, and distractions and anything that would keep you from sitting with your heart. The loneliness you’re feeling isn’t punishment. It is an invitation. I’m pulling you closer.

You’re not as alone as you feel. I’ve been here the whole time

– Jacqueline Whitney

The friends who’ve drifted weren’t taken from you to hurt you. They were moved to make room for what comes next. The conversations that used to fill your days have gone quiet so you could finally hear yours. The relationships that ran their course needed to end so the right ones could find you.

I know it feels like absence. From your perspective, it looks like everyone is moving on without you, like the room has emptied out, like you’ve been left here alone. But this isn’t abandonment. It’s preparation.

What’s being formed in you in this lonely season can’t be formed any other way. The depth you’re developing. The peace you’re discovering. The version of yourself you’re meeting for the first time. None of that happens in the noise. It only happens in the quiet.

You’re not as alone as you feel. I’ve been here the whole time, waiting for you to be still enough to notice me.”

Jacqueline Whitney is the author Held: A 50 Day Devotional For Parents and All That You Deserve.