You don’t have to fix yourself to be worthy of love. God is already at work in you — your job is to rest, release, and trust the process. 

You can’t fix other people — and you can’t fix yourself either. You can release what no longer serves you. You can pour into your healing. You can grow. But fixing? That was never your assignment.

Healing is God’s work. He is the one who created you, which means he is the one who knows how to redeem you. When we take on the burden of fixing, we start believing something is fundamentally wrong with us. That’s where self-hatred quietly creeps in. That’s where joy gets postponed. That’s where life becomes a constant project instead of something meant to be lived.

You were never meant to spend your life dissecting yourself into pieces. You were meant to accept who you are, love who you are, and show up as that person — honestly and faithfully each day. Growth doesn’t require rejection of the self. It requires compassion.

Let God do the fixing. Let him heal what you can’t reach. Your role is simpler than you think: release what isn’t aligned, make space for what is, and be present in the life you’re already living. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is stop trying to become someone else — and finally allow yourself to be.