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You Cannot Miss What Is Meant For You

If you’ve been feeling behind — like everyone else is hitting milestones you haven’t reached yet, like your life is somehow running late — this is your reminder to stop looking at the wrong calendar. Your story was never meant to follow someone else’s timeline. You’re not behind. You’re exactly where God needs you to be.

Angel: She thinks her timing is off.

God: Her timing is divine. She just can’t see it yet.

I’m aligning her life with the specific purpose I have for her.

– Jacqueline Whitney

Angel: What do you mean?

God: Every “late” feeling she has is right on schedule. The career milestones she thinks she’s behind on. The relationship she thought she’d have by now. The chapter she thought she’d be in. None of it is late. It’s all happening exactly when it’s supposed to.

Angel: But she’s comparing herself to everyone else.

God: I know. She’s measuring her timeline against people whose stories aren’t hers. Whose assignments aren’t hers. Whose preparation isn’t hers. She thinks she’s behind because she’s looking at the wrong calendar.

Angel: How do we help her see?

God: We remind her that I’m not running her race against anyone else’s. I’m aligning her life with the specific purpose I have for her. Her timing isn’t broken. It’s intentional. She’s not late. She’s right on time for the version of her life that’s actually meant for her.

Angel: She’s going to look back one day…

God: She’s going to look back and see that every “late” was actually perfect. That what felt like falling behind was actually being positioned. That her timing wasn’t off, it was just different. And different was always the plan.

Jacqueline Whitney is the author Held: A 50 Day Devotional For Parents and All That You Deserve.


About The Author

Jacqueline Whitney is a multi-faceted artist from New Hope, Pennsylvania. She is the author of various books about gratitude, encouragement, and overcoming grief. Her work spans multiple creative disciplines, exploring themes of healing and hope. Visit her store to discover her books and artwork.