Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
Colossians 3:13
Devotional Message
When someone wrongs us, our natural inclination is to respond with the same energy they’ve given us—to stoop to their level, to punish them, to make them feel the pain we’ve felt. As human beings, our feelings of anger, frustration, and irritation are warranted. However, these emotions also invite us to explore what breaking these patterns might look like as we strive to embody Christ’s forgiveness—so that we can restore relationships and strengthen our communities.
The two commands—bearing with others and forgiving them—demonstrate the model of true forgiveness. We first learn to bear with someone by developing patience and tolerance for their behavior, weaknesses, and quirks. From that place, we naturally discover compassion and grace, recognizing that others are also doing their best in their human experience. We come to realize that we are all one—we too have behaviors, weaknesses, and quirks that we may not even recognize. While forgiving someone is difficult, especially when they’ve caused us deep pain and suffering, authentically releasing resentment is necessary—not primarily for them, but for our own hearts. It is through the act of forgiveness that we most closely resemble God’s character. If God can forgive each of us for our sins, we must learn to do the same for those before us.
Let’s Pray
Dear God, please help me release the anger, frustration, and irritation in my heart toward the people around me. Teach me to forgive them as completely as you have forgiven me for all of my sins. You see how some of my relationships deeply affect me and how I struggle to offer love. But now, I am ready to release these grudges and grievances that have been weighing on my heart. I commit to bearing with others patiently and extending forgiveness freely, but as I do, please help me remember that in forgiving others, I reflect your character most clearly. Amen.
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